Wednesday, June 30, 2021

TWIN MEMORIAL AND MEMORY LANE FOR DUANE HARBERT

 






Duane Harbert, Class of 1951, took a winsome trip down memory lane from his Marlton, New Jersey home to West Virginia.

Well, I’ll let Duane tell you in his own words:

Good afternoon,

This past Sunday, June 27th, we had a a memorial service in Parsons, West Virginia for Mary and my son Tom.  Had a really nice turnout.

The next day two other couples (friends from New Jersey) went with me on a nostalgia trip to Marion and Harrison counties. Some things looked different and others looked the same. I introduced them to WV style hotdogs, crooked and narrow roads and WV hospitality.

We had dinner at Say-Boys (at their new location) with Okie and Arlene Edgell and  Eugene  (Buck) and Joanne Blagg. Had a great time. 

After dinner we went to Arlene's house for dessert and to see some of the work she and Okie do with their embroidery and quilting machines. They have produced some incredible pieces of art. The photographer was really interested in the work they do because she is also into quilting, sewing and many other crafts. 

It was an emotional trip but it really brought back a alot of good memories.

Duane

Son Tommy passed away in 2014 at the age of 51 after a 3-year battle with bladder cancer. That had to be tough to deal with.

Duane’s wife, Mary Donham Harbert, passed away in 2019.

Duane was part of the facetiously named Gang That Terrorized Marion County (we were rascals but not a terror in our teens) which include Bob “Satch” Kasper, Class of 1950, my friend for 83 years who lives in South Lyon, Michigan; Tony Eates, also Classof 1950, who lives in Fairmont with wife Lucy Cann Eates; Frank “Bruno” Franze, also Class of 1950, who lives in Slidell, Louisiana after out-loving two wives; retired West Virginia Highway Patrol Officer Steven “Bucky” Satterfield, Class of 1950, who lives in St. Albans; the late Lawrence “Sonny” Godby, also Class of 1950 (seeing a pattern here?); Donald Jake Halpenny, yep Class of 1950, who lives in Fairmont; and, all deceased, Ronnie “Cooley” Delovich, Anthony “Plumber” DeMary, Class of 1950 (of course), Joe Manzo, who survived combat in Korea; and Jim “Judge” Starcher, another Class of 1950.

Our most famous exploit was swimming in the Fairmont Field Club pool at 3 a.m. It was obvious when the police showed up that the country club help didn’t appreciate it. I walked home barefoot without my shoes but, when I woke up, my father stood there with my shoes and an unhappy scowl on his face (I did that a lot to him in those day). Marion County Deputy Sheloskie, father of my sister Jackie’s friend Lorain, brought the shoes to our Church Street home.

While everyone made a break for it the car that Duane drove didn’t and it was owned by Duane’s father, Thoburn principal Frank Harbert. Cops checked the car license plate, found out he it belonged to and everyone there was nailed to the wall.

We were brought into the Considation Coal Company office in Fairmont, given a “Scared Straight” treatment (long before it became popularized nationally), and turned over to our fuming parents.

It came under the category of “boys will be boys.” At least there were no girls involved.

Duane’s mother, Goldie, taught at Worthington Grade School. 

Duane’s brother, John Harbert, Class of 1955, and his wife, Karen Colvin, also Class of 1955, are deceased.

James M. Harbert of Taylor, Pennsyvania and David L. Harbert of Stratford, New Jersey are Duane’s other sons.


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