Tuesday, December 20, 2022

MY MIND HEARD A TINY VOICE SHOUTING "GOD BLESS US, EVERY ONE!"

 






Monongah High Alumni Association president Linda Lopez Gandy, Class of 1965, is the culprit.

She posted:

“Merry Christmas to all Monongah High School Alumni. From Jim and Linda.” Jim is Jim Gandy, Linda’s husband, Class of 1964, who is on the Alumni Association Board of Directors with Linda.

That unleashed a tsunami of Christmas cheer responses by Lions in West Virginia, Pennsylvania, Ohio, California and Florida!

Including mine.

So I figured I would expand the Merry Christmas exponentially through this blog. All it took was a week of non-stop determination and a friendly second mate in my PhotoDraw app that loves jpeg photos.

I’ll start the Lions who took part in the Facebook Merry Christmas thread as much as possible in reverse alphabetical order, to reward those who had to sit in the back of the room at Monongah High because the teachers went by A to Z alphabetical order in the seating arrangements:

Michelle Yankie, who prefers to be called Shelly, isn’t even a Monongah High graduate, only because Monongah High ceased to exist after her freshman year at MHS, with Class of 1979 being the last in Monongah High history before the merger into North Marion High, where Shelly graduated with the Class of 1982.

Shelly’s granddaughter, Tristen Orme, was queen of the 2022 North Marion prom. Shelly has 10 other grandchildren.

Shelly has been involved in the PACE project, which does such good work for those in need in Marion County; Susan Staron Sanders’ Monongah Christmas Lights Committee that brightens streets all over Monongah with those huge lights, like the one I bought that is next to my Church Street childhood home, the pearl in a seashell, and Shelly helped organized my July 2021 J&J&Lions get-together in the Monongah Town Hall attended by 40 Lions, family, friends and former classmates. J&J stood for John (me) and Jackie (my sister Jackie Olesky Straight, Class of 1955, who lives in Rivesville.

Shelly’s siblings are Chris Toothman, David Yankie, Sylvia Barr, Franklin Hammond, 1984 North Marion graduate Terry Yankie, 1987 North Marion graduate Barbie Yankie and 1989 North Marion graduate Kim Yankie Hawkins and the late Kenneth and Ronnie Yankie.

Then there’s Frankie Vandetta, Class of 1974, the 4th of 5 Frank Vandettas that meandered into Monongah. He’s married to Brenda Sturm Vandetta.

This Frankie – Frank Anthony Vandetta IV, retired from Consol Energy and still living in Monongah with wife Stephanie Kishbaugh Vandetta, who once resided in Hazelton, Pennsylvania.

The first Frank Vandetta was born in the early 1900s. The second was Frank Junior Vandetta, born in 1928. The third is Frank Vandetta III,  born in 1955. The fourth is Stephanie’s Frankie, born in 1990. The fifth is Frank Charles Vandetta V, born to IV.

Frank IV loves camping. Stephanie studied emergency medical services at Fairmont State and once worked at WVU Hospitals.

Then there’s Eric Toothman, Class of 1977, married since 1978 to Lori Munza Toothman, a 1975 Fairmont East graduate. Erica is a physical therapist assistant at Louis A. Johnson VA Medical Center, former Roof Bolter at Martinka mine, worked at Federal # 2 mine, moved from MHS to Fairmont State and lives in Monongah.

 

Eric and Lori live on Walnut Street, where I was born in the house of grandparents, Martin Olesky and Mary Peremba Olesky.

Lori has been with the U.S. Postal Service for 21 years, currently at the Mannington office. Previously, Lori was assistant to the Union Mission director in Fairmont. Lori grew up in Montana Mines, near Pricketts Fort, with her parents, Ava Jean Ellers Munza and the late John Munza. Eric’s parents are Frances Arretta Boner Toothman and Danny Lee Toothman.

 

Next is Valerie Vandetta Aldridge, Class of 1973, who works at Fairmont General Hospital and lives in Monongah with husband Jim Aldridge. Her uncle is the late Carl Eugene Vandetta, Class of 1948, in the legendary Monongah High band. Carl’s widow is Martha Vandetta. They were married 63 years.

 

Then there’s Monongah’s do-everything lady, Carol Thompson Spatafore, Class of 1965, widow of John Spatafore. Carol handled the Monongah Alumni Reunion golf scramble till there weren’t enough entrants to keep it going so Tony Eates and the late Bob “Satch” Kasper no longer achieved the distinction of finishing last and laughing all the way. And Carol collects and keeps excellent track of donations to the Monongah High Alumni Association college scholarship fund. She has attended every Reunion from 2008 through 2016. Carol lives in Fairmont.

Carol and John’s children are Frank Spatafore, who lives in Monongah with wife Jonna; John Spatafore, Jr. of Koons Run; and Gina Spatafore Croteaus of Hilton Head, South Carolina.  Daniel Thompson, Carol’s brother, lives in Monongah with wife Letha.

 

Belinda Sheppard, Class of 1969, lives in Port Charlotte, Florida, which I enjoyed when I visited that city on shores of the warm and friendly Gulf of Mexico. She’s retired and has been married since 1969. 

Brenda Mills, Class of 1970, is from Four States and lives in Waynesburg, Pennsylvania.

Debbie Moore O'Dell, Class of 1969, married Robert O’Dell, a 1966 Shinnston High graduate. They had planned to celebrate their 49th anniversary in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina but Hurricane Dorian blew that trip away.

 

Debbie told me that “I am a mother, grandmother and great- grandmother, sister and wife.” She worked at the Dairy Kone for Amelia Shenasky Zentz and her husband Bruce Zentz when Debbie was young, also was a department manager at CSM, Etc. at Wally World and worked at Urban’s Grocery Store in Monongah near the UMW Union Hall.

Debbie’s sister, Janet Moore Frazier, Class of 1972, also worked at the Dairy Kone, which provided spending money for a lot of Monongah High students over the years.

 

Debbie and Rob’s children are James and Julie, who both went to Monongah High and North Marion High.

 

Debbie grew up in Monongah but has lived in Kilarm for a half-century. Her children live in Kilarm, too.

 

Debbie’s parents were Vera Pearl Higginbotham Moore, like Rob a Shinnston High graduate, and Bill Moore. Vera played piano for The Marion County Song Birds.

 

Ah, there’s me, John Olesky, Class of 1950, born in my Olesky grandparents’ house on Walnut Street, then moved into a Thomas Street rental with a 2-hole outside toilet that was colder than a slum landlord’s heart in winter and, for the rest of my childhood, into the Church Street home WITH INDOOR PLUMBING and bathrooms that my parents John and Lena Olesky purchased. Every Christmas the pearl in a seashell Christmas street light brightens up my Church Street home that’s next to it. My sister is Jackie Olesky Straight, Class of 1955, who lives in Rivesville. I have 3 children, 7 grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren and all are shining emeralds. Not one lump of coal in this family. Lucky, I know.

 

I had a 42-year newspaper career as a sportswriter and later as an editor in West Virginia (Morgantown, Williamson and Charleston), Florida (St. Petersburg) and Ohio (Dayton and, for the final 26 years, at the Akron Beacon Journal with its 4 Pulitzer Prizes for superior journalism). And 6 weeks with the Glendive (Montana) Daily but that was only so that Mona Elizabeth Turkette and I elope, get married and have our honeymoon paid for, too.

 

That also financed my travels to 56 countries and 44 states and more than 30 winters in Florida (up to 4 months each visit). I married a Cinderella (WV) girl who gave me a half-century of non-stop love and joy and, after My Mona Lisa passed away, 16 more years with a former co-worker till she moved permanently to The Villages, Florida. I’m about as lucky as a coal miner’s son could ever hope to be.

Don Pitman, Class of 1962, is from Carolina, married, works at Joy Mining Machinery and lives in Fairmont.

Retired teacher Susan Kearns, Class of 1967, studied at both Fairmont State and WVU and living in Monongah. There’s a Bernard Kearns, Class of 1937, and a Michele Earhart Kearns, Class of 1961.

Linda Knobel-Carr, Class of 1967, worked at Philips (1968-89) and lives in Morgantown. She married the late Monongah help-everybody-I-can councilman Sanford Carr in 1969. Nancy Darden is Linda’s sister.

Linda and Sanford’s children and spouses are 1989 North Marion grad Tonia Carr Posten & Bill Posten, also a North Marion grad, and Bryan Carr & Amie Carr, all living in Monongah. Their grandchildren are Tyler Carr, Teala Jesseman and her husband David, Patrick Carr, Gabriel Carr, Peyton Taylor and Raquel Taylor.

Tonia and Bill have been married 21 years. Bill is in Mobile maintenance at First Energy and Tonia works in the Monongah Water Office. They live in Monongah.

I couldn’t dredge up much information on Catherine Markley, Class of 1966, although I did find her in a photo with what looked like a lot of grandchildren.

Colette Stanley Melton, Class of 1970, is an office manager at United Dairy living in Worthington, niece of Almira Stanley Murphy, Class of 1945, and Doris Stanley Urich, Class of 1947. Her father attended Monongah High and received his diploma after he entered the Army in 1951.

Collette’s cousin, David Stanley, is Class of 1965. Her sister, JoEllen Stanley, is Class of 1972 and lives in Harrison County. Another cousin is Keith “Legs” Beckner, Class of 1942. She once told me: “I enjoy keeping up with your blog about Monongah alumni.”

Which is exactly when I spend hour after hour working on the blog, to keep Lions informed about Lions.

Sherry VanMeter Nicholson, Class of 1965, is a widow living in Youngstown, Ohio. 

Debbie Moore O'Dell, Class of 1969, married 1966 Shinnston High graduate Robert O’Dell. Their children are James and O’Dell. Both went to Monongah and North Marion. Debbie and Bob have lived in Kilarm for a half-century. The children live there, too.

Linda Minnear Lane, Class of 1970, is from Hutchinson and lives in Winchester, Virginia.

Ernest C. Hayes, Class of 1965, who prefers to be called Earnie, went from Monongah High to San Bern Valley College, lives in Colton, California and is into fishing big time. I saw one Earnie photo with THREE fishing boats attached to and trailing the larger boat they were swishing through the water!

David Higinbotham went from Monongah High to studying engineering at Fairmont State and lives in Greensburg, Pennsylvania. He’s from Carolina and is married. David worked at Allegheny Energy from 1963 to 2003. He hangs out with Edward Gillis and Terry Gillis, particularly around their barbeque grill.

 

Back to Linda Lopez Gandy, who inspired me to spend days working on this article. Linda was a sales clerk at Leeds Candy Store and a beautician at May's Beauty Shop after studying at Morgantown Beauty College. Husband Jim Gandy, Class of 1964, is a son of the late Rose Marra Gandy.

Bernie Fullen, who in 2016 married Donna McGinnis Suppa-Fullen, widow of Bernie’s best friend, lives in Shinnston. Bernie is from Carolina.

Pauletta Ellison, Class of 1969, still lives in Four States as she did while attending Monongah High. Her friends include Collette Stanley Melton, Cindy Chism, Donna Ellison Miller and Norma Elaine Ellison.

Patti DeMary Evans, Class of 1972, who retired as a registered nurse at University Hospital in 2006 (started in 1987), is a 1974 Fairmont State graduate who lives in Fairmont. She’s been married since 1974 to Brian Evans. Their daughter is Brianna Evans Wimbish. She’s friends with Patti Steele McCombs and Goldie Huffman.

 

Janice Dalton Bayne, Class of 1965, a Publix cashier living in Perry, Georgia. Her children include Ryan Bayne and Sonya Faber Lawson and there’s a grandson or son named Tyler.

 

Nancy Riley Basnett, Class of 1960, a former seal beam employee at Westinghouse, whose phone number is (304) 677-9092, in case you want to call and wish her a Merry Lions Christmas.

Last, but certainly far from least, is Sandra Thompson Barton, Class of 1967, who is an author, speaker and Bible teacher. Sandy tackled elementary education, psychology and biblical studies at Northeastern Bible College, where she was a 1991 graduate. She lives in Beaver Falls, Pennsylvania, made famous as the birthplace and childhood home of National Football League and Alabama superstar quarterback Joe Namath.

So, it’s time for me to say “Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night.” As in “Good night, sure happy I finally finished this article,” although as usual it was a labor of love and a way to keep my brain from rusting or rotting. Win-win situation.

So, ho-ho-ho it up with family and friends which I will be doing at my daughter’s home in Brunswick, Ohio for about my 80th year of reading “The Night Before Christmas” to a crowd of children who behave so that, when I finish, they can attack their presents under the Christmas tree.

It makes me feel richer than billionaires every year.

Photo montage proof of our 2022 joyful Christmas gathering:




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